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The little silver oven

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They are actually calling it a thermos now…. When they got to have mac & cheese the other day, they both exclaimed:

“[That other little boy who had it the other day] will be so sad! He will be crying because he has no macaroni and cheese! I will give him some.”

I am not so sure that the boy cried or that they would have given him some – but I guess it’s the thought that counts.

Indian Summer

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The American Meteorological Society’s Glossary of Weather and Climate defines Indian summer as: “A time interval, in mid- or late autumn, of unseasonably warm weather, generally with clear skies, sunny but hazy days, and cool nights.”

It has been hot here for the past few days. Today it was in the low-90s. The boys and I spent the afternoon at the pool. It was bittersweet for me because it was so fun and beautiful and yet I knew this was very possibly the last real pool day of the season for us (it can’t possibly stay this warm for very much longer). The boys are so blissfully oblivious. They just engage with life in every moment and don’t think about what has been or what is to come. I know most all young children are like this. But to me, Kyle and Owen seem particularly so. I have noticed this about them since they were about 10 months old and taking their first steps. I remember being so struck by it then. And I still think of it almost daily as I watch them in the world.

Owen’s 1st Crush

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Well, this has been going on for a couple of weeks now, so I think it is safe to say that this is not just a fleeting thing… Owen has a major love interest… his 1st crush… he talks about her all the time… he regularly pretends he is playing with her… not a day goes by that we don’t have to listen to him go on and on and on about her. Owen has a big crush… on… June. As in, June (click here), from Little Einsteins (click here).
For those of you not intimately familiar, here’s a brief bio:
“June– Six-year-old June loves pretty things and is an organized planner who is also a talented dancer and exercises high vocabulary. This graceful, Asian-American girl may appear as dainty as a flower, but the team turns to her whenever there’s a physical challenge.”
Supposedly, June’s “favorite dance move is a leap.”
So, there you have it.

Scenes from the Weekend

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A favorite current activity for the boys = sitting in Papi’s office listening to music very, very loud, and ‘playing along’ with various instruments (either on the floor, or –if the instruments are mobile enough– on Papi’s lap). Current favorite songs = 1] O Fortuna, for Chorus and Orchestra, by Carl Orff, and 2] Black Horse and the Cherry Tree, by KT Tunstall (from the album Eye to the Telescope)
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Sunday morning, out for a walk, with Douglas James and Donald in their strollers.
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Owen hits the ball (he’s getting good). Currently, golf continues to be Kyle’s sport of choice, but baseball is definitely Owen’s sport of choice.
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Kyle mows the lawn. He is very serious about it.
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A highlight of the weekend for the boys was that they got their first tattoo’s! Saturday at the football game the Lehigh Dance Club was giving out temporary Lehigh tattoo’s. Both Kyle and Owen got one — each on their right cheek. They loved it. We finally removed them before bed on Sunday night.
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No photo… but we went to the shoe store today. The boys got new fall shoes, and they also each got to pick out a new pair of Crocs (the Crocs they’ve been wearing all summer were almost completely destroyed). They insisted on having the same color. By their own choosing they both chose red (I never even mentioned to them how nice it would be if they chose red for their Thing 1 and Thing 2 costumes). By the way, current feet measurements:
Kyle = size 10 1/2, extra wide, wearing size 11 shoe
Owen = size 11 1/2, regular wide, wearing size 12 shoe
These boys are big.
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And so cute and so sweet. Today alone they must have said, “excuse me?!” and “please” and “thank you very much!” a hundred times each. Plus, at lunch they ordered their own food perfectly politely in the restaurant. And after dinner they each came to kiss me to say, “thank you for supper Mama!” Honestly, they drive us crazy at times, and they are also so, so, so good.

Marching Band

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Well, Saturday morning we had a very special experience with the Lehigh Marching Band. Turns out one of my students is the Drum Major (conductor) of the marching band. Whoa! When she found out how obsessed my kids are (well, let’s be real — how obsessed KYLE is) with the marching band, she was all over it. She invited us to come to the football game early on Saturday, and hang out in the field house with the marching band as they warmed up and lined up. Whoa! Of course, we took her up on it. I had told her that Kyle was especially obsessed with trumpets and trombones. When we arrived at the field house my student (the Drum Major) was waiting for us. She came right up and welcomed K & O. And then… suddenly, a trumpet player and a trombone player came strutting right up, with their instruments and everything. (my student had obviously lined this up for us in advance without us knowing it). Whoa! Kyle just stared at the trombone player with delirious wide eyes. He showed the boys the trombone, he played it for them, he let them touch it. The trumpet player even let Owen try on his marching band hat. Whoa! It was huge. Especially for Ky Ky. We watched and listened to the marching band tune up, warm up, line up, get psyched up, and start their tailgate marching. Then we followed them around the parking lots and watched/listened as they stopped along the way playing for drunken tailgaters. Whoa! It was fabulous. Ky Ky is now even more obsessed than ever.

It’s Official!

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Sheep, 2005
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Lions, 2006
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I don’t know about the rest of you with young children, but with Halloween being less than six weeks away, the *C*O*S*T*U*M*E* decision is looming large around here. This is the first time that K & O really have a handle on what Halloween is all about. They seem to forget the candy part (strange little three year olds, aren’t they?!!), but they definitely remember the costume part. They are old enough now to decide for themselves what they want to be. And, over the past couple of weeks they’ve been unequivocally consistent. So, as of today, it is OFFICIAL. By their own choosing (I really don’t remember how they got this idea into their head), Kyle and Owen are going to be… Thing 1 and Thing 2 from The Cat in the Hat. They are also clear and consistent on this: Owen will be Thing 1, and Kyle will be Thing 2. Costume figuring-out has begun. The only thing the boys are adamant about: They say that they need new Crocs to wear as part of their costumes (?? where they got this idea, I have no idea). The only thing they’ve been wavering on: what color the new Crocs will be (red seems the obvious choice to me, but they’re all over the map— yellow? blue? purple?). The last two Halloweens I’ve thought that it could not possibly get any better (K & O have been soooo into Halloween both years)… but I have a sneaking suspicion that at age 3 Halloween might be even more fun this year!

Feeling Like Fall

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This morning we woke up to our first really cool day. It felt like Fall for the first time. Crisp, clear, and about 40 degrees. Today is the first time the boys are wearing long pants to school instead of shorts. K & O were so excited to bring a present to their teachers this Monday morning — yesterday while walking in the woods at the Castle Playground Park we collected acorns for Miss Kathy and Miss Diana (the nursery school classroom is called the “Acorn Room” so acorns were especially exciting to find). These photos were taken at 7:30 this morning. You can see Kyle holding a ziploc bag — filled with acorns. K & O were excited to go out on the deck to “feel the cold.” They discovered that they could see their breath. They loved blowing their breath into the air and “seeing it streaming!” (i.e., seeing it steaming!). And they were happy, too, to run inside to eat their warm waffles (Owen) and pancakes (Kyle) when Papi called “Breakfast time!”

My sensitive boy Kyle

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We had an awesome day today. And I rediscovered something about my Ky Ky today – he is a good boy – and a very sensitive boy. You wouldn’t think it from the outside: rough and tumble, swimming, playing, scooters, golf – laugh out loud – crazy – trumpet & drum boy – head shaking fun – flop all over knocking himself on the table – emergency room – boy. But he most definitely is.

I believe we all work hard to be good – everyone on Earth. And when we leave Earth, we want to be remembered as good. It’s true some are misguided – and some don’t have enough strength to be good, or the strength to turn it over to someone who can help – but we all want to be good. The world is a big place with many people who want to be good. We all look to someone to show us the way.

After a lot of playing this morning and generally having a fun time at home, we went to the grocery store for the weekly food shopping. Most of the time we do not go as a family since it’s mostly mayhem when we do. But this time we did – thinking it might go more quickly if we split up the boys between us and split the grocery list. It did go quicker, but the check out line was a disaster (of course). In the course of shopping, K&O wound up each eating 3 cookies. ‘nuff said.

When we got home we did our normal ritual – Heather goes inside to field inbound groceries, I stand at the back of the car distributing while K&O run in the loads. The boys are easily distracted of course and I constantly call out “Kyle – Owen, come on – come get more!” And they (mostly) dutifuly run out to get more.

As they have gotten older, I give them more “delicate” things (read: eggs and glass jars) – with the stern warning – “do NOT drop this – it will break and that would be very sad”. They do well – so far nothing broken that I can think of.

Over the course of bringing the groceries in today (this take about 20 minutes), both K&O were tripping on the stairs quite a bit and I was beginning to get frustrated. I handed K a cantaloupe and admonished him to be careful and not drop it. He very carefully and proudly at his careful way headed in. And tripped on the stairs. The melon dropped and rolled into the kitchen from the garage. I exclaimed (I should have been more gentle): “Kyle – I just told you to be careful.”

That was enough for my baby boy. He burst into tears. Real tears. Heartfelt torn tears. He went upstairs to find Honey Bunny. Heather went up and found him on our bed (where he had left it – but Heather had moved it) sitting there forlornly, sucking his thumb with tears streaming down his face. And he couldn’t find Honey Bunny.

When I came up stairs, I found Heather rocking K in his rocker in his room. His tears were drying and I told him I wasn’t mad, I knew it was an accident – it’s ok. To which he said very quietly:

“I’m not strong enough.”

There are so many kinds of strength not the least of which is just that. And he’s only three.

I believe that Kyle is a born leader. That does not mean that people will necessarily follow him, that remains to be seen how he develops. But he will carry his flag – of his own design – out in front of anyone at any time. His flag will be emblazoned with images of his life, thoughts, opinions, formations, notions and emotions. His flag will dip and rise, but in the end he will carry it without reservation. He does it now.

And if he is able to be not strong enough, he will be stronger than I am; and I hope that for him. If there is anything that tells me that while he might not know it right now – it’s this image from playing at the castle later in the day – when he had just come out of a 30 foot blackened tube slide that curve around and around.

Little red oven

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Kyle is obsessed (as he is with many things) with Mac & Cheese.

Heather makes the boys lunch for school each day, but had not given him Mac & Cheese (despite repeated requests). However, when he came home yesterday describing in depth how another boy had Mac & Cheese, and it was clear he was enormously jealous, Heather had to act.

According to Kyle, the Mac & Cheese was “streaming” and they made it hot “in a little oven” and the “little oven is red.” He really really really really wants Mac & Cheese now because “I love it soooo much.”

Heather dutifully made the requested delicacy and put it in both boy’s lunches. When I dropped them off, I sidelined the teacher and told her about his m&c obsession – she knew about it. I told her that he had m&c for his lunch, and asked her how they heated it up – and that K had explained about the little red oven.

She smiled and said – we don’t have anyway to heat it up – the other little boy had brought it in a thermos!

Next item on the shopping list: Thermos.